Vera Wang
Question:
I am recently engaged and
although I am very excited about planning the
wedding, I already feel overwhelmed. Everyone has an
opinion. While I want everyone to feel included, I’m
beginning to feel like it is not “my” wedding
anymore…
Answer:
The emotions around a
wedding can be complicated. Despite the happiness,
some couples feel a loss of freedom and identity as
they negotiate with their family and friends, and
with each other. The challenge is to avoid a block in
the lines of communication.
An engagement is a time when people learn new things
about each other – patience is essential. Intimacy is
also important. Commit to quiet moments that will
allow you to retain your sense of autonomy and to
reconnect with your partner on a very basic level.
For a bride, remember to focus on elements that are
truly “yours” – the wedding dress being one. Your
dress should be the ultimate statement of “you” on
your wedding day.